What are the clues that he or she is unhappy in your relationship? our worst fears: It is totally possible to be in a loving relationship, and all. Okay, hello everyone. I'm sorry if I post in a wrong section or anything, this is my first post, and if I weren't so confused and desperate I wouldn't. me and my girlfriend broke up yesterday. things were fine just the day before it. anyways can anyone tell me why she would just all the sudden be unhappy? . I' m still trying to come to terms with the idea that our relationship very quickly.